How To Read The Body Language Of Other People

Things to Be Aware of That Will Improve Your Communication Skills

It’s widely accepted that communication is more than just the words we say or write. Communication also involves verbal and nonverbal cues.

From previous studies, there has been a popular belief, that in communication:

  • 55% is our body language.
  • 38% is the tone of our voice (our tonality).
  • 7% is the words we use.

Whether this breakdown is still relevant today is debatable, however the important thing to know is that our body language plays a major part in how we communicate to others.

Our nonverbal signals, our body language, tells a lot about who we are to others. If we exhibit good nonverbal communication skills, it can inform others that we are confident and trustworthy.

Similarly, if we display poor nonverbal communication skills, we can come across as being insecure, disinterested or even untrustworthy.

The better we understand different aspects of how we communicate with our bodies, the better we’ll be able to relate to others and influence them so that it’s beneficial to everyone involved.

Body language techniques and how to use them

5 Valuable Things To Know If You Are Too Hard On Yourself

Quick Reminders That Will Help You Stay Motivated

It’s not uncommon for most of us to be harder on ourselves than we are on others. We often are our own worse critique.

What we say to ourselves, our self-talk, dictates our emotional state, which in turn, affects our attitude and outlook on life. If we’re constantly berating ourselves for not meeting a standard we’ve set ourselves, it will:

  • Cause us to feel unhappy.
  • Cause us to have low energy.
  • Decrease our motivation levels.
  • Decrease our self-confidence.
  • Affect what we’re willing or not willing to do.

We all have reasons as to why we’re hard on ourselves. In order to have a healthy level of respect for ourselves, we have to know how to turn habits of self-criticism into better, empowering habits.

Valuable reminders to stay motivated

How To Find 10 Hours Every Week To Do What Matters Most

Simple Things You Can Do Daily to Free Up More Time

One of the most common excuses we hear as to why people aren’t doing the things they really want to is because they don’t have enough time.

Comments such as, “I’ll get to it when I have more time” or “I wish I had more time” or “I just don’t have enough time” confirm the fact that most of us now are so time poor.

The reality is we all have the same amount of time every day and every week — 24 hours per day and 168 hours per week. We cannot get more time, which means that in order to free up time to do what matters most to us, we must become more efficient and effective in how we do things.

When it comes to doing what matters most to us, it may include:

  • Taking care of ourselves mentally, emotionally, physically, relationally and spiritually.
  • Spending more time with our families.
  • Learning something new.
  • Planning for the future.
  • Taking more time off.
  • Doing things that bring us joy.

The challenge we face is finding the time to do these things, but the good news is there are things we can do daily to free up time.

Ways to free up time weekly

5 Habits That Will Make You A More Happy Person This Year

How Small Incremental Improvements Can Increase Your Happiness Over Time

For all of us, our innermost desire is to be happy in life and we spend our whole lives pursuing happiness in different ways.

As we’re all different, some of the ways we chase happiness include:

  • Achieving financial success.
  • Improving our personal status.
  • Devoting ourselves to our families.
  • Being of service to others.
  • Sharing our gifts, talents and expertise with the world.

While it’s easy to buy into the idea that happiness can only be attained if certain conditions or criteria are met, the truth is happiness is something we create. In other words, we’re totally responsible for our level of happiness in life.

We don’t need external things or conditions to be satisfied, in order to feel happy. To experience greater levels of happiness, we can develop habits that automatically cause us to be happier.

Habits that lead to more happiness

How To Move From Procrastination To Greater Productivity

7 Things You Can Do to Get Things Done Easier and Faster

With most of us living such busy lives, it’s so easy to become overwhelmed and discouraged, which can often lead to procrastination.

If we don’t address the early signs of procrastination, it can easily become a habit and have some long-term implications such as:

  • Low motivation.
  • Delay in completing tasks or projects on time.
  • Failure to achieve our goals.
  • Reduced levels of confidence.
  • Low self-esteem.

The root cause of procrastination is often an emotional issue such as reluctance to deal with a situation, or avoiding something because it brings up certain insecurities or fears.

The better we can deal with procrastination, the more productive we will become.

Ways to avoid procrastination in order to be more productive

5 Useful Things To Do Next Time You Are Free For Five Minutes

How You Can Quickly Recharge Yourself to Become More Productive

We all crave for free time, where we can slow down, pause and take a break from being busy and constantly doing things.

Our busy and hectic lifestyle has made it difficult for us to be at our best consistently because we’re always “on the go.”

Not being able to relax and recharge ourselves can lead to:

  • Overwhelm and burnout.
  • Serious health problems later in life.
  • Mental fatigue.
  • Low performance and productivity.
  • Conflict in relationships.

If we want to be more productive and effective, we must be able to quickly recharge ourselves whenever we do get some downtime.

How to better use your five free minutes

10 Powerful Ways Positive And Negative People Differ In Their Results

Why Having The Right Attitude Determines What We Get in Life

The type of people we spend most of our time with influences the type of results we get and the quality of our lives.

Yet often, we find it difficult to remove ourselves from negativity.

Why does negativity have such a powerful influence on us?

One reason is because we have been programmed from an early age with negativity. It could have been from people who had influence over us like our parents or guardians, who without being aware of what they were doing, affected us with their words and actions.

Our programming affects our behaviours and actions, and most times, we do things without giving them any conscious thought. Therefore we get attracted to negativity because it’s what we are more familiar with.

There is a huge difference in the results of positive and negative people. Most times, it only takes a slight adjustment to one’s attitude to start getting better results.

Why having a positive attitude leads to better results

How To Avoid The Pain Of Regret Later By Committing To The Pain Of Discipline Now

5 Things You Can Do to Accomplish What You Really Want

In order to go to new levels of achievement and success, we have to be willing to go through some challenges and obstacles.

Along the way, it’s very likely we’ll experience some type of pain. While there may be emotional, physical and mental pain, there are two other types of pain referred to here if we’re serious about living up to our potential.

I once read that there are only two types of pain in life — the pain of regret and the pain of discipline. The pain of discipline weighs ounces whereas the pain of regret weighs tons.

Pain is a physical sensation we experience when something is not going right. Its main purpose is to give us an immediate warning that we have to make a correction somewhere.

If we ignore the pain, chances are it’ll get worse, maybe not straight away, but certainly over time. From that perspective, we can view pain as an opportunity to make changes.

The pain of discipline is more of a commitment issue rather than an actual pain. Consider professional athletes, say Olympians, who sacrifice so much for years, only to get their opportunity every four years. In order to be best prepared, they have to put in long hours of training and practice over many years leading up to their event.

How to deal with the pain of discipline

5 Valuable Signs You Are Not Falling Behind In Life

How to Know You’re on Track and Headed in the Right Direction

Do you ever feel you’re not where you should be or that you’re actually falling behind in life?

As most of us desire to have the best quality life we possibly can, sometimes our expectations don’t match up with our current reality, which can cause us to feel like we’re falling behind in life.

If we believe things are not going well and we’re not where we should be in life, it can:

  • Decrease our motivation to do what’s required to get to where we want to be.
  • Lower our self-confidence.
  • Cause us to feel unhappy.
  • Generate more stress or anxiety.
  • Cause us to feel disappointed with ourselves.

This is why knowing which signs indicate we’re actually on track and not falling behind in life is important.

How to know we’re moving in the right direction