How To Gain More Confidence By Doing Silly Things

Why You Should Allow Yourself to Lighten Up and Have More Fun

The thought of doing silly things as an adult, especially in a professional setting, is not something most people would dare to do.

As we grow older, the aliveness and vibrancy we had as kids is often replaced by our desire to be liked, accepted and respected by those we interact with regularly. Saying the right things and behaving professionally becomes our focus most of the time.

If we happen to do something that is outside our normal behaviour, it can often cause others to question if everything is okay with us.

There is an inner child in all of us that likes to have fun. The more we subdue our inner child, the harder it becomes for us to relax and be our true selves.

The good thing about being silly, while being aware and respectful of the situation or context we’re in, is that it will:

  • Make us feel more courageous.
  • Boost our self-confidence.
  • Make us more likeable and attractive.
  • Help us experience more joy in our daily interactions.
  • Cause us to feel good about ourselves and our life.

As lack of confidence often prevents people from going after what they really want, we can start boosting our confidence by doing silly things and having fun in the process.

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